Why Executive Functions Matter More Than You Think

Executive Functions Isn’t Just About “Being Organised”: What Parents in Singapore Really Need to Know

Most parents in Singapore hear “executive functioning” and think, “Ah okay, my child just needs to be more organised.” If only it were that simple. 

Executive functions (EF) isn’t a stationery problem. It’s not about buying another planner, colour-coding everything, or nagging your child until both of you crash. EF is the invisible engine behind how children plan, manage emotions, stay flexible, focus, and actually get things done. 

And for many neurodivergent children - especially those with ADHD, autism, or Global Developmental Delay - executive functioning is the silent struggle that shows up everywhere: academically, emotionally, socially, and at home. 

At Total Communication, we see this every day. Kids who are bright, curious, funny… yet constantly overwhelmed by tasks other children breeze through. Not because they’re “lazy”, but because the brain systems they rely on just work differently. 

Let’s break it down, in a way that actually makes sense for parents. 

What Exactly Is Executive Functions? 

Think of EF as your child’s internal “project manager.” It oversees three major areas: 

1. Working Memory 

   Holding on to information long enough to use it. Example: Remembering multi-step instructions without falling apart after step one. 

2. Inhibitory Control 

   Stopping impulses long enough to make thoughtful choices. Example: Not shouting the answer before the teacher finishes the question. 

3. Cognitive Flexibility 

   Being able to switch gears without melting down. Example: Accepting that plans changed because it’s raining without a full sensory storm. 

   
   

   These three skills support abilities like planning, problem solving, decision making, time management, emotional regulation, and organisation. 

   When any of these foundational skills lag behind, daily life becomes much more challenging.  

   
   

Signs of Executive Functions Challenges in Children 

Parents often tell us, “I thought it was just misbehaviour.” 

Nope. It’s often EF. 

Here’s what it can look like: 

• Constant forgetfulness 

• Emotional outbursts when routines shift 

• Difficulty starting tasks 

• Trouble finishing tasks 

• Losing items daily (water bottles, worksheets, sanity—yours, mostly) 

• Messy schoolwork 

• Struggling to organise thoughts 

• Difficulty waiting or taking turns 

• Appearing distracted even when they’re genuinely trying 

If three or more of these sound familiar, EF may be the core issue. 

Why Neurodivergent Children Struggle More With Executive Functions

ADHD, autism, GDD, and developmental delays can directly affect the brain areas responsible for these skills. 

But here’s the good news, EF can be taught, strengthened, and supported with the right interventions. 

How Total Communication Builds Executive Function Skills 

Our approach is rooted in real-world function, not worksheets that look good but achieve nothing. 

1. Executive Function Skills Training (Through Games & Real-World Challenges) 

   Children strengthen EF best through interactive, engaging tasks — not worksheets. 

   We use structured games and problem-solving activities to develop: 

   1. flexible thinking 

   2. planning and organisation 

   3. impulse control 

   4. working memory 

   5. without making sessions feel like tuition.. 

      
      

2. Emotional Regulation Training 

   A child can’t plan or organise anything when dysregulated. We teach co-regulation, body-awareness strategies, and practical calming tools. 

3. Real-Life Routines Practice 

   Packing a school bag, planning homework time, and transitioning between tasks, we rehearse this in therapy so it becomes automatic in daily life. 

4. Parent Coaching 

   Executors of change? That’s you. We give simple, realistic strategies that fit into actual Singapore households, not Pinterest fantasy homes. 

Practical Home Strategies You Can Start Today 

Here are small wins parents swear by: 

• Give instructions one step at a time 

• Use visual schedules (pictures > words) 

• Practise transitions with countdowns 

• Create predictable routines 

• Break tasks into micro-steps 

• Use timers for task initiation (the hardest part) 

• Celebrate effort, not outcome 

Nothing complicated. Just consistent. 

When Should You Seek Professional Support? 

If your child’s EF challenges are affecting: 

• Learning 

• Emotional wellbeing 

• Behaviour at school 

• Friendships 

• Independence 

…then early intervention is not just helpful, it’s essential. 

Delaying support often creates bigger struggles later, especially in the upper primary years when academic load skyrockets. 

Ready to Support Your Child’s Executive Functioning? 

At Total Communication, we run evidence-based EF sessions designed for neurodivergent children in Singapore. Our therapists blend cognitive training, emotional regulation, and practical routines into highly effective sessions. 

Book a consultation to identify your child’s EF strengths and gaps. Want a gentler first step? Message our team to ask questions, no pressure. Interested in targeted programmes?

Call/WhatsApp: +65 9115 8895

Our upcoming holiday programme still has limited slots. 

Your child isn’t “behind.” They just need a different roadmap, and we’re here to guide both of you. 

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Important Links

1. Developmental Therapy in Singapore | Total Communication

2. Speech Therapy Singapore, Stuttering Therapy | Total Communication

3. Educational Therapy in Singapore | Total Communication

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